So basically what happened was that you were informed about my link problems, but decided to not return (no clue why not, I am not known to ask for eq returns.. so me actually getting the word out through Mikhan should have rung a bell?). That's fine if you decide such so, albeit a bit assinine if you ask me.anomander wrote:He was not forced to do anything. Mikhan was the one that yelled and offered to trade sets and the group agreed. He looted a quarter set of combo with kandori, you can now get him that and return justice to this unjust world...
My point about the Trade was that since no one in the group saw your death as ld/afk, nothing was going to be returned until mikhan presented an opportunity to get some of weir's set back. And even then, in an effort to be transparent, he was told that the gleamer was gone and therefore the Trade could be called off if he wanted to.
However, this only stays put if all your groupmembers agree... and the person turning in the Gleamer for qps actually mailed me and told me that he/she would have returned had he/she actually known it was a linkproblem/LD return: so I wonder in how far the group was consulted or just one person was being mean here?
That this person actually mailed me, set my mind to ease somewhat, because it shows decency on his/her part. I was dissapointed, but still.
Then you go and actually conduct a trade with a DL during active PK? How kosher is that? He was trying to get my eq returned, but you actually used that to screw him one over, thats how I see it.
It is not about the eq, not even the gleamer: I got more of them, hell: I even died with another 45 minutes later inside FD..
It is about the attitude: I know I've had a bad stint in the 2000's, but I dare say I reformed pretty well (even if people tend to never forget anything on this mud
). I try to do something for another player each time I log on (helping re-eq, helping quest, helping smob, interact with DFs, etc) without much personal gain other then that I helped someone. I for a fact know what I've helped almost everyone in that group in the past with various things. Then you die with severe linkproblems and immediatly people turn a leaf and try to argue their way out of an eq return (instead trading part of a set??).Its dissapointing and discouraging